7. The Rules on Homework
"The outstanding student seems to relish structure and has a firm grasp on his complicated schedule of sports, practices, music lessons, and other commitments. He isn't one to procrastinate; he is enthusiastic, even for repetitive drills and scales. Parents of successful students are advocates for their child but are supportive, rather than combative, toward the school."

Outstanding flute students often do not "hate" to practice their scales. They begin to study their recital pieces well in advance of the performance date: they understand the value of long-term practice and preparation. Their parents keep in touch with their private flute teacher or band director. They bring up problems as well as report victories, benefits, and honors.

8. Stand Up and Cheer
"Making the effort, on the part of the parent, to be present for a child's victories and milestones is vitally important. Kids who keep up the stuggle will ultimately develop persistence, the most valuable trait a student can have."

The parents of the best flute students come to recitals, school concerts, rehearsals, and sometimes lessons. Persistence is the most valuable trait a good flute student can have. Even students with less-than-abundant musical talent, even adults who start music lessons late in life, can succeed and learn to play beautifully if they are persistent.